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		<title>Jesus Created Crisis</title>
		<link>http://www.joshwhitehead.net/2011/01/18/jesus-created-crisis/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jan 2011 04:59:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The church is in a bit of a leadership crisis &#8211; some might even describe it as chaos. Some churches are welcoming the chaos and thriving while others are rejecting it and declining. No matter what your take, there is a crisis in the church. Last week I was reminded that crisis can be a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The church is in a bit of a leadership crisis &#8211; some might even describe it as chaos. Some churches are welcoming the chaos and thriving while others are rejecting it and declining. No matter what your take, there is a crisis in the church.</p>
<p>Last week I was reminded that crisis can be a good thing. In the Gospels, Jesus&#8217; entrance into the religious world created a major crisis or chaos. Jesus challenged the status quo of the religious leaders of His day and destroyed religion as it existed. In turn, He set up a new order &#8211; one based upon obedience, faith and grace &#8211; instead of works and legalism.</p>
<p>The thought hit me: <strong><em>Sometimes God does His best work when we are in a crisis.</em></strong></p>
<p>People are more willing to listen when they are in crisis. People are more responsive when crisis hits. Often, people change because of crisis.</p>
<p>So, I&#8217;m praying that the church will recognize the current crisis and respond by listening and changing. There&#8217;s a great opportunity to see major shift that will impact the world in a whole new way.</p>
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		<title>Simple Math</title>
		<link>http://www.joshwhitehead.net/2010/07/27/simple-math/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 11:24:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week I met with Damien Gerke with the Malphurs Group and it was a great time of learning. While we were together, he made a statement that went something like this: The problem in the US is that we have individual churches sharing the Gospel instead of churches linking together to create a movement [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last week I met with <a href="http://www.malphursgroup.com/AboutUs/Team.html">Damien Gerke</a> with the <a href="http://www.malphursgroup.com/index.html">Malphurs Group</a> and it was a great time of learning. While we were together, he made a statement that went something like this:</p>
<blockquote><p>The problem in the US is that we have individual churches sharing the Gospel instead of churches linking together to create a movement of the Gospel.</p></blockquote>
<p>His words have been bouncing around in the void known as my mind for days!</p>
<p>Think about this &#8211; If the approximate <strong>400,000 churches</strong> in the United States reached out to <strong>750 people</strong> each, we could effectively tell each person about God&#8217;s love and create a movement for the Gospel in America. (For the math deficient, 400,000 churches * 750 people = 300,000,000 people &#8211; the approximate population of the US)</p>
<p>Some churches can do more &#8211; others can do less. BUT, we all can do something.</p>
<p>My question: <em><strong>How can we effectively link churches together in our country and world to create a movement for Christ?</strong></em></p>
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		<title>Obvious signs</title>
		<link>http://www.joshwhitehead.net/2010/04/27/obvious-signs/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 03:01:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[﻿Every weekend your church has services. People come on to your campus and people leave your campus. They have an experience &#8211; or do they. This verse hit me the other day. What should we do with these men? For an obvious sign, evident to all who live in Jerusalem, has been done through them, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>﻿Every weekend your church has services. People come on to your campus and people leave your campus. They have an experience &#8211; or do they. This verse hit me the other day.</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="font-family: Calibri,Verdana,Helvetica,Arial;">What should we do with these men? For an <strong><em>obvious sign</em></strong>, evident to all who live in Jerusalem, has been done through them, and we cannot deny it!  Acts 4:16 (emphasis added)</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span style="font-family: Calibri,Verdana,Helvetica,Arial;">Does your church have any obvious signs that God is present? Do people experience God at your church in such a way that they cannnot deny it? Is it known by everyone who lives in your city?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Calibri,Verdana,Helvetica,Arial;">I want Faith Promise to have obvious signs.<br />
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		<title>Things that help FPC: Black Friday Parking</title>
		<link>http://www.joshwhitehead.net/2010/03/08/things-that-help-fpc-black-friday-parking/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 13:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is one thing that never ceases to amaze me: churches build beautiful buildings with small parking lots. For so many churches, your impact is not being limited by your style of church. Your impact is being limited by the size of your parking lot! A few years ago we had that problem. There were [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is one thing that never ceases to amaze me: churches build beautiful buildings with small parking lots. For so many churches, your impact is not being limited by your style of church. Your impact is being limited by the size of your parking lot!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.joshwhitehead.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/parking-lot.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3276" title="parking lot" src="http://www.joshwhitehead.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/parking-lot.jpg" alt="" width="425" height="282" /></a></p>
<p>A few years ago we had that problem. There were 411 parking spots on campus, and we knew that our attendance was being limited by our amount of parking. So, we decided to build a &#8220;Black Friday&#8221; parking lot (we added 364 parking spots for a total of 775 spots). Everyone knows that Black Friday is the largest shopping day of the year. Stores like Wal-Mart build their parking lot for Black Friday (the parking lot will never be full at any other time of the year). As a church, your Black Friday is Easter (or your largest weekend each year). As you approach Easter weekend, do you have enough parking? Consider this:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Total Service Attendance</strong> (kids &amp; adults on campus) / <strong># Cars in Parking Lot</strong> =<strong> Average Attendees per Car</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>So, at Faith Promise, we have found that our <strong>Average Attendees per Car</strong> is <strong>2</strong>. With 775 parking spots, we can never exceed 1500 in total worship attendance per service. However, you should tithe your total parking for transitions between services. So, with 700 parking spots, we can never exceed 1400 in total worship attendance at a service. And guess what: we have never exceeded 1400 in a service (we have 1,050 seats in our main worship center).</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s your action: next weekend, count people and cars! Then, create a plan for more parking on Easter Weekend and add spaces BEFORE next Easter!</p>
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		<title>Things seminary didn&#8217;t prepare me for</title>
		<link>http://www.joshwhitehead.net/2010/02/01/things-seminary-didnt-prepare-me-for/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 12:58:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s obvious that no amount of education can prepare you for everything that you will encounter in the &#8220;real&#8221; world. The more that I am in the church world, the more I realize that seminary has that same problem. Honestly, it has to be one of the reasons why many pastors struggle in ministry. They [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s obvious that no amount of education can prepare you for everything that you will encounter in the &#8220;real&#8221; world. The more that I am in the church world, the more I realize that seminary has that same problem. Honestly, it has to be one of the reasons why many pastors struggle in ministry. They feel forced to be experts in areas that they have never been trained. Here are some areas that I have experienced this.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Staffing</strong>: I never had a class on identifying church staff, but <a href="http://ministersearch.com/">MinisterSearch</a> can do that for you and save you lots of time and heartache from bad decisions.</li>
<li><strong>Human Resources</strong>: when you are letting someone go, HR is important. Although you have probably never had a class in HR, someone like <a href="http://www.churchlawgroup.com/">The Church Law Group</a> can help you.</li>
<li><strong>Church Buildings</strong>: how many pastors constructed a building before they entered ministry? My guess &#8211; not many! Even though you haven&#8217;t built a building, people like the folks at <a href="http://www.mgandassociates.com/">MG&amp;A</a> can help you overcome the building obstacles.</li>
<li><strong>Church Calendar Management</strong>: although I never created a program to schedule church calendars and resources, I found a simple, great program that did. The folks at <a href="http://www.serviceu.com/eventu/">ServiceU</a> can help you do that and so much more.</li>
<li><strong>Database Administration</strong>: I have a love/hate relationship with computers. When I was in Seminary, computers were just coming into existence on the &#8220;personal&#8221; level. So, I was never taught a way to keep up with the people and their giving that came to my church. However, the people at <a href="http://fellowshiptech.com/">Fellowship Technologies</a> can help you with that.</li>
<li><strong>Finances</strong>: most people stink at this area! But, <a href="http://us.intacct.com/">Intacct</a> can help you take your church finances to a whole new level.</li>
</ul>
<p>There are tons of other resources that we used each day in areas that Seminary never prepared me for. If you have a question about an area not mentioned, let me know.</p>
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		<title>Static vs Dynamic</title>
		<link>http://www.joshwhitehead.net/2010/01/20/static-vs-dynamic/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 17:34:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the church world, we tend to lean toward helping people from the static position. Static: adj; showing little or no change We like to give people lists of information that they are to analyze and implement in their ministries. It&#8217;s the common model of most coaching networks. The interaction is typically a mind dump [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the church world, we tend to lean toward helping people from the static position.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong><em>Static</em></strong>: adj; showing little or no change</p></blockquote>
<p>We like to give people lists of information that they are to analyze and implement in their ministries. It&#8217;s the common model of most coaching networks. The interaction is typically a mind dump of information that happens 6 times over the course of 6 months. There&#8217;s nothing wrong with coaching networks (I&#8217;ve been a part of <a href="http://tonymorganlive.com/2008/11/16/meet-my-coaching-network/">Tony</a>&#8216;s and agreed to lead one for <a href="http://partnerscc.com/">PCC</a> that didn&#8217;t work out). But I think there is a better way.</p>
<p>In April, I am going to be launching a ministry that provides dynamic help.</p>
<blockquote><p><em><strong>Dynamic</strong>:</em> adj; pertaining to or characterized by energy or effective action; vigorously active or forceful; energetic</p></blockquote>
<p>As a part of this type of experience, you will receive help characterized by actions that you should take that will help you in ministry. Honestly, it&#8217;s a dream and I could not be more excited about it. Look for the release of the name and launch of the website in 4-6 weeks.</p>
<p>(BTW, I&#8217;m NOT leaving my current ministry position at <a href="http://faithpromise.org/">FPC</a>, so don&#8217;t panic!)</p>
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		<title>Are there any young faces in the room?</title>
		<link>http://www.joshwhitehead.net/2009/11/29/are-there-any-young-faces-in-the-room/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 03:20:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Several months ago we were studying the average age of the staff at Faith Promise. It was surprising &#8211; the average age of the staff was 35 years old. Honestly, we thought that it would be lower than that when we began the process. So, why does it matter? A few years ago I attended [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Several months ago we were studying the average age of the staff at <a href="http://faithpromise.org">Faith Promise</a>. It was surprising &#8211; the average age of the staff was 35 years old. Honestly, we thought that it would be lower than that when we began the process. So, why does it matter?</p>
<p>A few years ago I attended a denominational meeting and noticed something &#8211; I was one of only 20 people out of 3,000 under the age of 50. Seriously, it may have been better than that, but it was not much better. My thought: <strong>there are no young faces in the room</strong>. There is no influence over or input from the next generation. The people here have completely lost the next generation and they either do not know, do not care, or a combination of both.</p>
<p>As I left that meeting, it made me evaluate our church and staff. Are we attracting a portion of the next generation in our ministry? Does a portion of our staff reflect the next generation? Are the people who are serving a part of the next generation? If not, our church is going to die. Oh, <strong>it may not cease to exist for a long time, but it is going to die or is already dead</strong>.</p>
<p>Look around your office today. Is the next generation represented? If not, who are you mentoring? Who are you developing? Who are you taking to the next level? We want to prepare the next generation to lead our church and The Church. Are you doing your part?</p>
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		<title>Change the church, change the world</title>
		<link>http://www.joshwhitehead.net/2009/11/24/change-the-church-change-the-world/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 06:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few years ago when the TV show Heroes began to air, they started with the slogan, “Save the Cheerleader, Save the World.” For the first two seasons, they developed this plot that ultimately meant nothing as the show continued to morph into nothingness (yes, I am a recovering, bitter Heroes fan). Last night as [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few years ago when the TV show <a href="http://www.nbc.com/heroes/">Heroes</a> began to air, they started with the slogan, “Save the Cheerleader, Save the World.” For the first two seasons, they developed this plot that ultimately meant nothing as the show continued to morph into nothingness (yes, I am a recovering, bitter <a href="http://www.nbc.com/heroes/">Heroes</a> fan).</p>
<p>Last night as I talked with my father-in-law about so many things happening around the world, I was reminded of another “plot” that has morphed more and more into nothingness, even though it is the absolute core of the hope for our world.  The phrase that hit me:</p>
<blockquote><p>Change the church, change the world.</p></blockquote>
<p>Only through the Church (God’s people collectively) will the world ever be changed. Unfortunately, in so many expressions, the church has become an irrelevant entity that has little meaning instead of the growing, vibrant Bride of Christ that impacts the world for eternity.</p>
<p>I want to be (NO, I am) a part of a church that changes the world. I want you to be a part of a church that changes the world. How can I pray for your church?</p>
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		<title>Spend time unpacking</title>
		<link>http://www.joshwhitehead.net/2009/09/30/spend-time-unpacking/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 05:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The past few days I have been at our Senior Team Retreat. We get away every fall and spend a few days planning for the following year. Last night I was unpacking my bag and realized that every time I take a trip I spend time unpacking my bag. The dirty clothes get put into [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The past few days I have been at our Senior Team Retreat. We get away every fall and spend a few days planning for the following year. Last night I was unpacking my bag and realized that every time I take a trip I spend time unpacking my bag. The dirty clothes get put into the hamper for the wash, the toiletries go back under the cabinet (unless you have separate ones for travel like me!), clean clothes get put back up and the bag goes back in its place. You would never consider not unpacking your bag.</p>
<p>In the same way, you should spend time unpacking the ideas from the time you spent away. Each initial idea needs time for reflection, analysis and improvement. Whether you are at a conference or on a retreat, take time to unpack the ideas. Consider spending a significant amount of time asking tough questions about the decisions that were made, those that are in process and those for the future. Otherwise, you are just wasting your time.</p>
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		<title>Cultivate, don&#8217;t manipulate</title>
		<link>http://www.joshwhitehead.net/2009/09/28/cultivate-dont-manipulate/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 03:07:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week this prayer hit my mind: Lord, help me cultivate my kids relationship with you and keep me from manipulating it. Honestly, it is so much easier to manipulate some times and the progress seems to be so much greater. Manipulation is like food in the microwave: you can get things so much more [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last week this prayer hit my mind:</p>
<blockquote><p>Lord, help me cultivate my kids relationship with you and keep me from manipulating it.</p></blockquote>
<p>Honestly, it is so much easier to manipulate some times and the progress seems to be so much greater. <strong>Manipulation is like food in the microwave</strong>: you can get things so much more quickly but they often do not taste as good as a well prepared meal.</p>
<p>When I manipulate a situation, I can often avoid difficult conversations. Growth appears to be much faster. Life seems to get better so much more quickly. But it is all really a mirage. Manipulation is a trap that will only lead to dissatisfaction in life and relationships. So, why do we choose it?</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Cultivation takes time</strong>. When you place a seed in the ground, it does not spring up over night. Cultivating takes the right conditions that only happen over time.</li>
<li><strong>Cultivation takes commitment. </strong>You cannot just leave something you are cultivating &#8211; you must care for it regularly.</li>
<li><strong>Cultivation gets messy.</strong> When it rains to much, things rot! You make the life application.</li>
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<p>In the lives of the people around, build a plan for cultivation. Don&#8217;t manipulate to get them where you want them or to accomplish your desires. Walk with them, and help them fulfill the desires of their heart.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s your tendency &#8211; cultivation or manipulation?</p>
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