I was challenged recently with this statement:
Don’t say, ‘I’m not a good listener.’ Just tell the truth and say, ‘I don’t value what you have to say.’
Ouch!
So often I have the tendency to tell people that I am not a good listener. Like others at times, I like to update my imperfections and sins by giving them a better name.
Instead of not valuing what people have to say at times, I should:
- Remember that another persons feedback can make a good idea a great idea.
- Remember that just listening adds value to others – people love to be heard.
- Remember that a team is compelled by a great vision and strengthened by listening.
What about you? Do you struggle to listen to others at times?
Sorry, what was it you said?
Exactly!